Delayed or denied marriage can be seen in one’s natal chart. In this article you will get insight in aspects which can lead towards delayed or denied marriage.
“When will I marry?”
“Will I marry at all?”
“How come I feel like marriage is not something I will experienced in this lifetime?”
In the past 10 years my clients have asked me this numerous times. Yes, it is true – natal chart can tell you whether you have delayed or denied marriage. However, one negative aspect alone cannot predict delayed or denied marriage per se. It was only true in a few cases, where individuals really didn’t have the best planetary conditions for marriage. However, in most cases my clients simply had aspects that only delayed marriage for them.
Since this topic is kind of hot topic for my clients as well in natal chart readings as in tarot readings, I have decided to write an article about aspects that delay or deny marriage.
First, lets clarify something. Namely, nowadays it is really tricky to define “the right age” to get married. Individuals have their own reasons for when and why they will (not) marry. People don’t marry in their 20s anymore. Wealth, health, education… all this can be vital reasons why someone marries later in life. So, if you are 30 and still not married, no reason to worry, you know?
WHAT TO LOOK FOR IN YOUR NATAL CHART WHEN RESEARCHING DELAYED OR DENIED MARRIAGE?
When clients ask me, if there are any reasons in their natal charts why they would marry late or wouldn’t marry at all, I check the condition of their 7th House, 7th House ruler, planets that sit in 7th House and their aspects. Here are some findings:
Marriage is appreciably delayed
– Saturn conjuncts Venus or Rahu or Mercury in 7th House
– Saturn and Moon both in 7th House
– Sun placed in Ascendant and Saturn in 7th House
Marriage is delayed
– Saturn in aspect with Jupiter
– Saturn in 5th House
– Venus in 7th House in aspect with the Moon from the 11th House
– ruler of the Ascendant in conjunction with Venus in 8th House
– Cancer Ascendant
– the Sun placed in 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 7th, 8th or 9th House
– Venus is 43 degrees or more away from the Sun
Marriage is most likely denied
– Saturn and Sun both in 7th House
– void Venus
However, be aware that an aspect alone cannot be the reason, why you will have delay in marriage or why you wouldn’t marry at all.
I have seen over 1000 natal charts so far. From what I have seen, delays or denials usually happen when two or more different negative or heavy aspects are all in one natal’s chart. However, if there are also positive aspects present, this will influence natal chart in a great way and most likely alleviate negative aspects.
WHAT ABOUT TRANSITS AND PROGRESSIONS?
It is true that one’s natal chart will show main tendencies that one will have in their life. However, transits (especially from Uranus, Neptune and Pluto) and progressive charts can turn the natal chart around. For example: when Pluto transits happens to one’s Sun or other personal planet, great changes in one’s life can happen.
In the future I will publish an article on the topic of aspects between Venus and Saturn, which is extremely interesting for one’s love life in general. Stay tuned!